From Within These Walls
Celebrating 100 Years at 10 South Gilbert
June
2008
UUSIC – A
WELCOMING CONGREGATION Tova Vitiello
Celebrating
the lives of all people and the ways in which
they express their love for each other.
On Friday, May 18, 2007, the Unitarian Universalist Society of Iowa City
celebrated its tenth anniversary as a Welcoming Congregation, and the
tenth
anniversary of our Interweave Chapter, with a concert featuring The
Quire and performances by members of our UU congregation.
Eighteen years
earlier, in 1989, the General Assembly of the Unitarian Universalist
Association approved the "Welcoming Congregation" program, a program
that confronted heterosexism and the oppression of lesbians, gays, and
bisexuals in the United States.
While we assumed that
our own congregation was inclusive, members of UUSIC believed that it
was important to formally welcome lesbian, bisexual, gay, and
transgender people because much of the justification for their
oppression was and still is ''religiously'' motivated. We wanted to
provide an environment where people could feel safe and "tell the truth
of who they are." So, in the spring of 1995, the Gay, Lesbian, and
Bisexual Task Force was formed at UUSIC. Within the year, it became the
Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Task Force (in fact, UUSIC
included transgender people before the UUA did).
The members of the
original task force were Charles Eastham, Miriam Kashia, Virginia Melroy,
Gay Mikelson, Virginia Lee Stamler, Sheila Streeby, Theresa Ullerich,
Tova Vitiello, and Mark Yuskis. The primary focus was to organize and
help implement the Welcoming Congregation process.
In preparation, the
task force met regularly for two years. We completed a series of 10
workshops with our UU Society. In addition, we provided forums, showed
relevant films, held discussions, sold t-shirts whose logo affirmed all
people, and kept UUSIC informed through newsletter articles. We also
sponsored a First Sunday Breakfast, made a UU banner, and marched in
Pride Parades with others from our congregation.
On May 18, 1997, when
our congregation voted unanimously to become a Welcoming Congregation,
the task force evolved into the UUSIC Interweave Chapter. UUA official
recognition of our work soon followed. During the next
decade, our Interweave Chapter and our congregation have continued to
carry out the commitments and actions inherent in being a Welcoming
Congregation.
Interweave
serves as a resource for RE, and provides adult forums and service
programs on LBGTQ concerns. We oppose all legislation that
discriminates against people on the basis of
sexual orientation or gender identity. Interweave also continues
to support and sponsor a wide range of LBGTQ events and activities, many
of which are listed above.
Because the
Unitarian Universalist Society of Iowa City
is a Welcoming Congregation, lesbians,
bisexuals,
gays, and
transgender people have a safe place to develop mind and spirit. UUSIC
affirms and promotes the inherent worth and dignity of every person; we
enter into a "covenant, promising to one another our mutual trust and
support." For some of us, this is the only place where we can laugh and
relax, sharing picnics, games, concerts, dinner parties, and other
social events with our heterosexual allies. But more importantly, for
some of us, this is the only place where we can share our stories and be
ourselves.
Here at
UUSIC, we feel more than tolerated or accepted -- we feel celebrated!
Since 1997,
Interweave has:
Marched each June in
the
annual Pride Parade behind our "UUs Affirm All People" banner
Donated 20 books
dealing with LBGTQ issues to our UU library, choosing books on a variety
of topics and written for audiences of all ages
Maintained anLBGTQ bulletin board
in
Channing Hall
Written a
monthly
Interweave article for the UUSIC News
Supported the annual
Pride Talent Show
Participated in Lobby
Day in
Des Moines
Presented Sunday
services
on LBGTQ issues and experiences:
A
Not So Straight Political Journey
Welcoming Ourselves
Celebrating Our Pride
Beyond Blue and Pink: When Gender Betrays Us
Courage from Necessity,
Standing on the Side of Love
Presented forums:
Homophobia and Other Forms of Oppression
Gender Socialization
Transgender: Expanding Gender Awareness
Civil Rights for LBGTQ People
National Coming Out Day
Shown movies:
Desert Hearts
The
Incredibly True Adventure of 2 Girls in Love
Boys Don't Cry
Serving in Silence: The Margarethe Commermeyer Story
Gay
Couples: The Nature of Relationships
Special events have
included:
1998 UUSIC-sponsored Ferron concert
1998Come Out, Come Out Wherever You
Are, by Tova Vitiello, performed at UUSIC
2001 Experiential workshop, Transgender
and
Gender Awareness
2006 UUSIC receives F. Joseph Wilson
Award
for Best Community Service Group
2007 The Quire
TAKING A
STAND AGAINST NUCLEAR ARMAMENT Marilyn
Jennewein
At a special
congregational meeting on February 3, 1985, UUSIC passed the Nuclear Free Zone
Declaration. This resulted from an effort by the Unitarian Universalists for
Social Action, chaired by Martie Olson, to “actively and openly involve the
Board of Directors and the entire Society in an informative and meaningful
dialogue on the nuclear free zone movement.” Through forums, discussions,
newsletter articles, and a special Sunday service speaker, 50 members of UUSIC
participated in presenting information to the congregation.
The declaration
stated, “The act of declaring a Nuclear Free Zone is intended as a moral
statement and public witness. …We feel strongly that the moral dimensions of
this issue are sufficient cause for the congregation to communicate its concern
to the large society.” This may have been the first time that the congregation
as a whole took a formal public stand on a major political and moral issue, for
a concern expressed before the vote was that the declaration ran counter to “the
past policy of individual voice and action in our local Society and not Society
public witness.” Nonetheless, the congregation approved the declaration by a
vote of 80 to 9.
The declaration also
stated, “To give our declaration maximum effect, we instruct our Board to post a
symbol of this action on our property, to convey this declaration to appropriate
governments and representatives, and to commend it for publication.” Following
adoption of the declaration, the Society worked for adoption of a similar
resolution by the City Council of Iowa City, and this was accomplished later
that year.
Check
it out …
From Within
These Walls is
a project of the UUSIC Building Centennial Team: Jeanette
Carter, Susan Eberly, Marilyn Jennewein, David Martin,
Betty McKray, Charity Rowley, Faye Strayer, and Mark
Yuskis, with the help of many others in our UUSIC community.
UUSIC timeline
- Decade by decade historical highlights, located on
the south wall of Channing hall, and updated monthly.